Sunday, 17 June 2012

17/06/12 Lusty Love... HAPPY FATHERS DAY PAPI’S!


It is only right that this week I dedicate Lusty Love to my amazing dadio as well as all the amazing fathers out there who are doing an amazing job supporting, raising and loving their own children as well as the children of others who may not have a biological father in their lives.

Men get a lot of stick about not being there for their kids, but there are a lot of men out there that do not get the recognition, love and respect that they deserve for being phenomenal fathers.

So I would just like to say Happy Father’s Day to all the men out there who care about the impact they they have on the lives of their children and who would do anything to see their children smile!

So here’s to all you amazing dad’s for today and everyday hereafter… HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!!
All my Love Sara xxxxx

Wednesday, 6 June 2012

Life A Year & A Day Later

Last year on the 7th May to be exact, I published a blog post titled Crisis of The Mid 20’s’, it was pretty title explanatory. At that point in my little life I was experiencing serious anxiety over something that now seems so trivial, but at the time it was like my entire world was falling to pieces.

After I sat myself down and gave myself a serious talking to, I managed to pull myself together and look on the bright side of life. Part of that was due to the image that I used to accompany the post which was basically an encouraging note about life.
A whole year and a day later on May 8th 2012 to be exact I was sat alone in a lovely little restaurant in Old San Juan, Puerto Rico eating a salad, when something told me to look to my left. When I did this is what I saw…

Life certainly does have a great sense of humour. A year ago when I posted that blog, I had no Idea that I would have travelled to Puerto Rico or to other places in the Caribbean alone but here I am. I had no idea that I would feel happy again, but I do and I had no idea that I still wouldn’t have a bloody clue about what to do with my life, but I don’t and I honestly don’t care.
Although it’s a different note, it still has the same meaning. For me it is like a continuation of the first note that has made me think back to last year and how far I have come since then.
Sometimes in life you just have to let go and enjoy the ride, I did just that and even when there are bad days, I still love it all!

Love Sara (A little lady who is constantly amazed by the humours of life). xx

Monday, 28 May 2012

Objectified and Pissed

The other day at work one of the girls said “OMG, have you heard the name of R Kelly’s new song?” which allegedly is titled something to the effect of ‘Girl I Just wanna get you pregnant’ (major kiss my backside teeth moment!) Whether this is or is true or false… what the fuck is up with old dudes these days.

I may sound a little touchy but that’s just because for the last 13 weeks I’ve had men who are old enough to be my father undress me with their eyes, lick their lips, pucker up at me, ask me if we look good together, if they can have a hug, who’ll be sleeping in my bed tonight, if I’m a virgin and whether I like it hard or soft! I CANNOT take this sleazy disturbing bullshit anymore!

The fact that they are old enough to be my father is just too much to handle, one of these sleazy fuckers actually thinks I’m 21 not 25 (not like that would be enough to make a significant difference) but didn’t let that stop him!
To them it’s all one big joke and could never be in anyway disrespectful to the female that they are objectifying. Not only is it disrespectful and enough to make you want to punch a fucker square in the face, it’s also very embarrassing. Not in the sense that they have embarrassed me but in the sense that I feel embarrassed for them.
The fact that they somehow think that it is ok or even normal to speak to not only girls that are young enough to be their daughters in such a distasteful and disrespectful manner, but also simply the fact that they think that it’s acceptable to speak to any female of any age in that manner is truly embarrassing and simply pathetic.
If these so called grown ass men with grey hair were the same age as me, yeah I’d be pissed but at the same time based on the fact that they are boys not yet men in their 40’s and 50’s, it would kind of be expected of them as they are still in the stage of their life where they are acquiring game. But when you are a big ass man with a wife and grown ass kids at home you have no excuse. You should know better.
God help the young lady or any lady that falls for this crap.
Act your age not your fucking shoe size!
Rant over.
Image sourced from Google

Sunday, 27 May 2012

27/05/12 Lusty Love

This week at work there has been one song that has been playing on the radio over and over again which is something that can easily piss someone off, but every time this song came on all I could do along with the other girls in the office was smile and sing along.

Enjoy my Lusty Love of the week. Mwah! xxxxx